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Evie Walman is not obsessed with death. She does think about it a lot, though, but only because her family runs a Jewish funeral home. At twelve, Evie already knows she’s going to be a funeral director when she grows up. So what if the kids at school call her “corpse girl” and say she smells like death? They’re just mean and don’t get how important it is to have someone take care of things when your world is falling apart. Evie loves dusting caskets, polishing pews, and vacuuming the chapel―and on funeral days, she dresses up and hands out tissues and offers her condolences to mourners. She doesn’t normally help her parents with the grieving families directly, until one day when they ask her to help with Oren, a boy who was in a horrific car accident that killed both his parents. Oren refuses to speak and Evie, who is nursing her own private grief, is determined to find a way to help him deal with his loss.
SORRY FOR YOUR LOSS is a heartwarming, honest, respectful, and sometimes wry look at the inner workings of a Jewish funeral home through the lens of a tween who simply sees it as the family business.
Praise for SORRY FOR YOUR LOSS:
Named in the “The Best Jewish Children’s Books of 2021” list from Tablet.
“What comes after the hardest thing in the world? Joanne Levy answers this question the way a ten-year-old needs it to be answered. Sorry For Your Loss is funny, moving, deeply researched, deeply felt and, above all, hopeful. Deceptively simple and simply marvelous.” — Adam Gidwitz, author of the Newbery Honoree, The Inquisitor’s Tale
“Joanne Levy writes of death, grief, and friendship through the eyes of the delightful Evie Walman as she negotiates both the rather small and very big stuff in her life. A heartfelt glimpse into Jewish family and mourning rituals written with empathy and, of course, humor.” — Lisa Brown, bestselling author/illustrator of The Phantom Twin and The Airport Book
* “…a heartfelt and expertly written tale of loss, family, and friendship that will have readers blinking back their tears as they follow Evie and Oren as they navigate their way through their new companionship. … A beautiful and sincere story of death, healing, and family.” — Kirkus (Starred Review)
“This contemplative novel sensitively depicts a straightforward and compassionate view of death and grieving and explains the Jewish customs for burial preparation. Character development is the strength of the novel, especially in emotionally charged moments. This highly discussable novel navigates complex feelings gracefully. VERDICT: Despite the heavy topics this unique novel addresses, it features humor and warmth and characters young readers will care about.” – SLJ
“While deeply poignant and heartbreaking, there are also moments of lightness that offer much-needed levity against a more serious foundation. In all, Sorry for Your Loss is an enlightening, delicately hopeful, and beautifully rendered story.” — Quill & Quire
“This important topic is sensitively handled, turning an already excellent coming-of-age tale into an important addition to the middle grade bookshelf.” — Jewish Book Council
“Anyone who has felt the loss of a loved one, who knows what it’s like to feel alone in your grief, or who has wanted to help someone else without knowing how can find comfort in this story. Written for middle-grade readers, this book is a reminder that while pain may not go away, it will get easier with time.” —Canadian Children’s Book Centre
“Grief and mourning are difficult topics for anyone at any age, and Levy’s book treats her subject matter and her readers gently and with understanding. … While the themes might be painful, the book is anything but sad, and it will give its readers some insight into grief as well some tools and suggestions for dealing with it in a proactive and positive way. Highly Recommended.” — CM – Canadian Review of Materials
“Though this may be a difficult read for some, the care in discussing death and dying, family, friendships, and survivors’
guilt results in a touching story that is a delight to cry through.” — Association of Jewish Libraries
“A sincere story about hope, healing, and a blooming friendship amid grief.” — ALA_Booklist
“Varied Jewish traditions and beliefs around life and death are an essential part of this story featuring two singular, quirkily realistic kids, both white, whose burgeoning friendship is a delight in a sometimes funny, always moving story.” — Cooperative Children’s Book Center (Chosen as Book of the Week)
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